How to believe in Romance again after you got dark in the reality?
Jona U asked:
I used to be a guy who believes in love and beauty and romance. I made a video of a beautiful tale of romance. But it’s been a few years and life and love just don’t seem to exist nowaday, when i look back on the video that i made, i really don’t feel any love or romance of it that i used to feel. It’s almost like that part of me is lost. How can i get it back?
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I used to be a guy who believes in love and beauty and romance. I made a video of a beautiful tale of romance. But it’s been a few years and life and love just don’t seem to exist nowaday, when i look back on the video that i made, i really don’t feel any love or romance of it that i used to feel. It’s almost like that part of me is lost. How can i get it back?
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July 19th, 2007 at 3:16 am
by appreciating what you have. spice things up you got too comfortable.
July 20th, 2007 at 6:21 pm
I definitely understand your situation, because I feel the same way. After losing my boyfriend I was convinced that I would never feel love again, and I didn’t for a while, but now I’m getting that feeling again. You’ll believe in all that stuff again once you find someone who makes you feel that way, and you will.
July 22nd, 2007 at 9:50 am
just have to keep believeing.
things are cloudy, but trust me you’ll see clearly again
hopefully sooner, rather than later
July 23rd, 2007 at 3:01 am
Why would you want to be a person you stopped being? Stop living in the past and move forward in your life. The romance thing crops up when you don’t expect it. Work on yourself some, maybe someone nice will notice.
July 24th, 2007 at 5:37 pm
Find the one who is for you……..everything will come.
July 27th, 2007 at 7:10 am
Wait.. seriously.. you just have to wait.
At one point I was considering suicide but I was happy.. and it was completely for scientific reasons.. but then I was dark and horrid and cold.. and considered it again.
But eventually I felt less and less.
I learned a most important lesson over the years.. hate and love can wither and weaken.. even if it is absolute it can be defeated by a greater hate or love.
I mean you just have to find sometihng that will make you happy again.
Find something to fight for.. or something. I mean its different for other people but I found what I’m living for. How can you get it back? Just take it back it never left.. it seems as though something is stopping you however.. so you have to take that obstical out. What was different between that time and the time you were happy? I don’y know but you can figure it out for yourself. At least its not clinical right?
July 27th, 2007 at 10:42 am
I don’t know a whole lot about UTube, but can you put it there and get responses to it?
Some people may love it and some totally dis it. It’s an idea.
Life and love exist, maybe you are not looking in the right places.
July 28th, 2007 at 11:15 am
well maybe you should stop trying so hard (if you are)! maybe that kind of love and romance that you felt when you looked at the video isn’t really interesting to you any more. look for/find different ways of romancing, or just find other videos to look at!
July 29th, 2007 at 8:16 pm
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